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Dear Abby: Bio mom doesn’t have to support adoptive parents

Published Sun, 17 Nov 2024 06:57:16 GMT

Dear Abby: Would it be wrong to reach out to my biological mother for financial help? I was adopted when I was just 2 months old. I was lucky to have wonderful parents, but they are in poor health, and it’s affecting both of them physically. I’m going into debt helping them out financially. They are on a fixed income that barely covers their expenses. Would it be wrong of me to ask my birth mother for that help? We see each other occasionally. My birth mother sold her house and isn’t hurting financially. I don’t want to sound entitled. I just need some help, and I’m prepared for a no. — Entitled to Anything?Dear Entitled: It isn’t your birth mother’s responsibility to support the couple who adopted you, particularly since the request for money would be ongoing. You stated that you see her only occasionally. (If you do what you are considering, you may be seeing her less often.) If your parents still have relatives, you might have some ...

Solar battery storage container catches fire in Valley Center

Published Sun, 17 Nov 2024 06:57:16 GMT

VALLEY CENTER, Calif. -- A fire that erupted Monday inside a solar battery storage container prompted nearby buildings to temporarily evacuate in Valley Center, authorities said.The blaze occurred around 5 p.m. at 29465 Valley Center Rd (Terra-Gen Energy Storage System), according to Valley Center Fire Protection District.SkyFOX was over the location where smoke could be seen spewing from the storage container. California campsite reservation bill heads to governor’s desk Around 6:39 p.m., evacuation and shelter-in-place orders were put in place for nearby residents. Those orders as of 8:32 p.m. have since been lifted, authorities said. Terra-Gen, a renewable energy developer, told FOX 5 Monday evening that the facility’s design systems was helping keep the incident contained.The blaze is the second Terra-Gen fire in Valley Center since April 2022, according to community officials.Valley Center Rd, between Cole Grande Rd and Sunset Rd, was also closed for several hours due to...

VIDEO: Actor Jason Momoa greets fans at two San Diego stores

Published Sun, 17 Nov 2024 06:57:16 GMT

SAN DIEGO -- Actor Jason Momoa and MadeWorn creator Blaine Halvorson on Monday stopped by two stores in San Diego for a meet-and-greet with fans.Momoa, known for his roles as the superhero Aquaman in Aquaman and Khal Drogo in Game of Thrones, and Halvorson promoted their drink called Meili Vodka at Total Wine in Mission Valley and Ralphs in La Jolla.Eager fans were able to take pictures with Momoa and Halvorson, as well as get their bottles signed. San Diego becomes most competitive rental market in SoCal for first time in years "Seven years ago, we embarked on the journey to create Meili together. To not only tell our story but to bring others along with us; to craft the best vodka on the planet - from spirit to bottle," the co-founders said on their website.Their San Diego visit is the first stop of the Meili Vodka California tour this week.The most recent film Momoa has starred in is Fast X, the 10th installment of the “Fast and Furious” franchise, that released in May 20...

City council to vote on water rate increase Tuesday

Published Sun, 17 Nov 2024 06:57:16 GMT

SAN DIEGO -- City council is expected to vote on a nearly 20% increase to water rates for San Diego residents.If approved, this would increase rates 10.2% beginning Dec. 1, 2023, then up to an additional 8.7% beginning Jan. 1, 2025.Mayor Todd Gloria said this would equate to an approximate $12 increase to the average residents' monthly bill.“This is providing water and sewer services to basically 300,000 addresses in the city or running the public utilities for the 8th largest city in the country," Gloria said in an interview with FOX 5 Monday.City officials have said the reason for the hike is increased rates from the San Diego County Water Authority that are being passed down to the customers, plus treatments and infrastructure.Gloria said the water authority had initially proposed a 14% increase, but the city was able to negotiate them down to a 9% increase in rates."In this particular case the city has no better option than to pursue this rate adjustment, not doing this will cos...

Colombia’s president has a plan for ‘total peace.’ But militias aren’t putting down their guns yet

Published Sun, 17 Nov 2024 06:57:16 GMT

BUENAVENTURA, Colombia (AP) — Officers wade through rows of abandoned wooden homes teetering above a mangrove-cloaked river – one of the key channels used by gangs to move drugs and weapons through this long-neglected swath of Colombia’s Pacific coast.Each step for them is a reminder: Control here remains not with the law, but with those whose names are spoken in whispers in their city. Los Shottas and Los Espartanos.The two gangs are the latest to lay siege to Buenaventura, Colombia’s busiest port and the crown jewel of narcotrafficking routes, the jump point from which drugs pour out to the rest of the world. Now, they’re among a growing set of armed groups lining up to negotiate peace deals with Colombia’s new government. Upon his historic election last year, Colombia’s rebel-turned-president Gustavo Petro promised to cement “total peace” and end one of the world’s longest-running conflicts. But as his government moves to fulfill that bold promise, Buenaventura has grown to exemp...

Brazil’s Lula pitches his nation – and himself – as fresh leader for Global South

Published Sun, 17 Nov 2024 06:57:16 GMT

UNITED NATIONS (AP) — “Brazil is back.” That has been Luiz Inacio Lula da Silva’s refrain for the better part of the last year, with the president deploying the snappy slogan to cast Brazil — and himself — as a leader of the Global South no longer content to abide the world’s outdated workings.Last year, Lula thwarted the reelection bid of the far-right Jair Bolsonaro, who showed little interest in geopolitics or diplomacy during his four years in office. Lula, by contrast, has crisscrossed the globe and visited 21 countries in recent months, from the United States to China, Italy to India, Argentina to Angola. He has sought to boost Brazil’s cred with each state visit and speech, one multilateral forum after another. On Tuesday, his address at the U.N. General Assembly will mark his return to that rostrum for the first time since 2009, the last year of his previous presidency’s second term.“We will see references to the ‘Brazil is back’ narrative, as Brazil seeks ...

North Korea says Kim Jong Un is back home from Russia, where he deepened ‘comradely’ ties with Putin

Published Sun, 17 Nov 2024 06:57:16 GMT

SEOUL, South Korea (AP) — North Korea said Tuesday that leader Kim Jong Un has returned home from a trip to Russia where he deepened a “comradely fellowship and friendly ties” with President Vladimir Putin. The official Korean Central News Agency didn’t give many specifics on the six-day trip that was Kim’s longest foreign travel since he took power in late 2011. Kim visited several military sites in Russia and said in live comments last week that his country offered “full and unconditional support” to Putin. KCNA also said in an earlier report from his trip that Kim and Russian Defense Minister Sergei Shoigu discussed expanding “strategic and tactical coordination” between the countries’ armed forces.His comments and itinerary raised concerns about possible arms deals, in which North Korea could supply ammunition to refill Russia’s drained inventory in the second year of the war in Ukraine in return for receiving Russian technologies to modernize his nuclear weapons arsenals. U.S. ...

Hunter Biden has gone on the offensive against Republicans. That could be tricky for the president.

Published Sun, 17 Nov 2024 06:57:16 GMT

WASHINGTON (AP) — Hunter Biden has gone on the offensive against his Republican critics, arguing in a new lawsuit that although he is the son of the president of the United States, he shouldn’t be treated differently than any other American.The lawsuit against the IRS is only the latest in a series of counterpunches by the president’s son. But while Hunter Biden’s lawyers might think that an aggressive approach is the best legal strategy for Biden the son, that might not be what’s best for Biden the father as he seeks reelection and tries to keep the public focused on his policy achievements. The president has had little to say about his son’s legal woes — which now include a felony indictment — beyond that Hunter did nothing wrong and he loves his son. The White House strategy has been to keep the elder Biden head-down and focused on governing, reasoning that that’s what voters will prioritize, while working to keep Hunter’s troubles at arm’s dis...

Florida jury pool could give Trump an advantage in classified documents case

Published Sun, 17 Nov 2024 06:57:16 GMT

MIAMI (AP) — The classified documents indictment of Donald Trump would seem, on paper at least, to be the most straightforward of the four criminal cases the former president is facing.Reams of classified files were stashed in Trump’s office and storage room and he boastfully showed off to guests one such document he acknowledged was “secret,” federal prosecutors have alleged. His own lawyer is quoted in the indictment as saying Trump encouraged him to mislead investigators who demanded the documents back, and prosecutors have since secured the cooperation of a Mar-a-Lago staffer who says the ex-president asked about deleting surveillance footage at the Palm Beach property.But that doesn’t make the path to conviction easy, particularly with the case set for trial in a Florida courthouse expected to draw its jury pool from a conservative-leaning region of the state that supported Trump in the 2020 election. Those built-in demographics may be a challenge for prosecutors de...

Political divide emerges on Ukraine aid package as Zelenskyy heads to Washington

Published Sun, 17 Nov 2024 06:57:16 GMT

WASHINGTON (AP) — Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelenskyy’s visit to Washington this week comes at a critical juncture for his alliance with the United States as Republican leaders in Congress diverge on how to send more military and humanitarian aid to the country. President Joe Biden is seeking an additional $24 billion in security and humanitarian aid for Ukraine, in line with his promise to help the country for “as long as it takes” to oust Russia from its borders. But ratification of Biden’s request is deeply uncertain thanks to a growing partisan divide in Congress about how to proceed. Republican House Speaker Kevin McCarthy has told reporters that he wants more Ukraine aid to be debated on its own merits as a standalone bill, rather than attaching it to other priorities like government funding. But the Senate has other ideas. Leaders in the chamber would like to combine the Ukraine aid with other priorities, such as a short-term spending bill that will likely be ...